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Families
who live with the disease of addiction and/or other behavioral health
problems, generally come to feel guilty, ashamed and blamed–by
themselves and others–for the problems in their families. There is a
circular causality in families with afflicted members; the family is
affected by the addiction/behavior and the family affects the course of
the addictive disease/behavioral health problem. The problem eventually
spirals out of control.
It stops only
when the family becomes motivated to change. The
family must decide that it is no longer willing to be controlled by the
disease of addiction and/or related behavioral health problems.
It
takes courage to initiate the intervention process. But, it takes only
one in the family to start meaningful change. One person is capable of
mobilizing others to join in stopping the destructive impact of
untreated addiction/behavior on the family. It takes courage to come
together as a circle of concern to address the painful issues of
addiction and behavior health problems.
For
change to happen, each family needs to believe that change is possible.
We believe that families are intrinsically healthy and competent with
the resources necessary to initiate change. If you are reading this,
you are already in some stage of change. Focusing your energies by
mobilizing others for support is the next step.
OUR
SKILL is in providing the guidance that mobilizes those resources in a
manner that allows the individual in crisis to accept help and begin
treatment. Regardless of whether you are: a parent concerned about an
adult or adolescent child; a husband or wife concerned about a partner;
a son/daughter concerned about a parent; a sibling concerned about a
brother or sister; or a concerned other for a close friend or
colleague, we can help you get the addicted individual started in
treatment.
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The method builds
on the strengths and commitment of the family’s motivation to change.
The
method is invitational. Research shows that most substance abusers are
willing to participate in a family meeting centered around the topic of
their use when a loving and direct approach is used to invite them. We
are trained to coach you in how best to approach your loved one.
We
know that you have a long-standing investment in your loved one’s
well-being and don’t want to do anything to jeopardize that
relationship. The method respects that
relationship by engaging your loved one so that they never feel
“ambushed” by the process.
As
Interventionists, we provide guidance and support for you in getting
your loved one started in recovery.
is one of the
few intervention methods that has been formally
investigated in a study funded by the National Institute on Drug Abuse
(NIDA) and is cited as an “evidence based” best practice.
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More
than 80% of family, friends and concerned others who make the initial
contact to help an individual get into treatment complete the intervention.
is 90% effective
in encouraging individuals to enter into treatment
and/or self-help, regardless of age, gender, ethnicity, race or
substance/compulsive behavior of choice.
Sixty percent of those who contact are successful after just the first stage of intervention, meaning the family/ support
network is able to do most of the work internally with coaching from
our staff.
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